Martial arts and healing arts seem to be polar
opposites--one is hurting and the other is healing. Why even
mention the two in the same breath? For starters, just because it's
unthinkable. There's a pervasive perception of healers as soft,
codependent, afraid of conflict of any kind; a perception that
needs to be challenged.
Pushing Hands with Arthur Goodridge,
Tai Chi Teacher
Actually there's a long-standing tradition among
the serious martial arts that players at a certain level have to
learn healing modalities as well as self-defense. It's all about
balance. At the crudest level is the "You break it, you fix it," concept,
and there are plenty of opportunities to treat injuries in the
dojo. But it goes much further than this. in fact both groups have
a lot to learn from each other.
It's important to roughly distinguish between the "external" and "internal" martial
arts. In the external arts (boxing, karate, etc.) the emphasis
is on strength, conditioning and speed. In the internal arts (aikido,
tai chi, ba gua, etc.) the emphasis is on balance, sensitivity,
strategic retreats and general deception--one prevails by reading,
respecting, and redirecting the opponent's strength and speed.
It is this latter standpoint that informs Neural Touch.
What are the similarities between martial and
healing arts?
Familiarity with the human body is important--its
strengths and weaknesses, joint ranges of motion, etc.
Posture, good body ergonomics, and a relaxed application
of pressure are important to practitionrs of both.
The contact or pressure points are virtually the
same--all that differs is the intention.
Calmness in the face of "battle." Actually, in
one sense, it's never really your battle, but if you're not careful
you can get drawn in emotionally.
Serious matters are at hand. Disease and health.
Life and death. Are you able to see and release your attachments:
To an opinion
To an approach
To being right
To succeeding in a certain time-frame
Everything keeps changing. Forces and tensions
don't sit and wait for you. You have to adapt and patiently,
doggedly follow and wait for your opportunities.
There is an unmistakable intimacy that must be
acknowledged and dealt with.
Focus is extremely important. Kumar Frantzis,
a monstrously proficient martial player, says that he assumes
that every opponent is faster, stronger and better trained than
he is. Then the only way he can prevail is by being more alert
and aware. This also indicates the power of humility.
Softness does not mean weakness. Softness is a tactic.When
hardness is appropriate it should be employed as well. It's just
not as useful since hardness alerts the defenses.
Softness means that you are fighting a battle
on a smaller scale than your opponent realizes. Since no defensiveness
is triggered, you can effortlessly undermine the opponent's strength.
No direct frontal attacks. Misdirection and confusion
work much better. You don't try to change your opponent. Rather,
change yourself in relation to him.
Willem De Thours, Master of over 80 Martial Arts
Did the word "opponent" upset or confuse you?
Good! Upsets and paradoxes will always be there to be acknowledged
and transcended. The client is not an opponent. The opponent
is the disease, or tension the client is housing. Or, more
accurately, the opponent is the dysfunction or aberation
or misunderstanding that has crystalized into tension and
disease. In the martial arts, there is a similar imbalance
or dysfunction that would make someone want to attack you
in the first place. In either case, with the determination
and patience of a trial lawyer you need to systematically
destroy the logic of the misconception, and then sit back
and let the jury decide.